Do you get overwhelmed by life?
Learn who YOU are, what YOU want, and what YOU need to be happy.
“Is this it?”
You’ve made your way through college. You’ve worked hard, have gotten good grades, and you’re all set for the future.
Maybe you’ve even managed to find a job, you have good friends, and it all looks good from the outside.
Adult life smacks you over the head and you start questioning all of it.
You have all these responsibilities, choices, expectations others have for you as well as expectations you had for life, you have to juggle all these things and somehow be successful at it.
Meanwhile, all your friends (both real and on social media) seem to have it all together and breeze through life effortlessly.
You wake up in the morning and ask yourself ‘Is this it?’
You’re feeling like…
- You have no clue what’s going on in your own life.
- This cannot be all there is, life has to be better than this. This doesn’t even look like what you expected.
- You’re afraid of looking back later and thinking ‘I wish I had’, but you have no idea how to prevent that.
- You want that careless freedom back that you had as a child. You can still hear yourself giggle, but can’t remember when you last cried from laughing so hard.
- You’re lying awake, questioning all the decisions that have brought you here, terrified you made the wrong choice somewhere.
- You think you know what you want to do, but are too afraid of other people’s judgments and opinions to really go for it.
- Suddenlt you have all these choices to make for your life, but you’ve never really thought about who you are or what you want.
- You’re not sure whether you’re on the right path, or doing it ‘right’.
But it could be different. How would you feel if…
- you felt free to live exactly the way you wanted to, without thinking about other people’s judgments or opinions?
- You could live from your truth?
- On Sunday you didn’t get anxious, but excited for a new week full of opportunity?
- You weren’t afraid of regretting things you didn’t do, because you’ve done them all?
- Life stopped feeling like an uphill battle every day?
- You could stop worrying about money all the time?
- Lying awake at night, overthinking and second guessing your decisions was a thing of the past?
- You felt so confident in who you were, that you stopped needing approval or permission to be her?
- You could live life as your best self, every day?
Nobody knows who you really are,
if you aren’t sure yourself
After working together, you’ll be able to…
Know exactly who you are at your core.
Choose joy over stress and drama.
Confidently make decisions, because you know what you want.
Work with your nature instead of against it to make life more effortless and fun.
Set boundaries to protect your own energy and interests.
Keep up with your life and know how to get back on track if you do fall behind.
Live from your own truth and make your dreams reality.
How do we work?
Even though everyone is different, these are the four steps I go through with all my clients, to make sure we hit all the important topics. These steps are only applicable for clients who choose a coaching trajectory.
When you work with me, we work together. We’re in this together. Meaning that we not only have our calls, but you can also ask your questions in between sessions on DM or email, and you’ll get exercises to make progress outside of our calls. Think of me as the friend you didn’t know you needed (or maybe you were looking for her, and here i am!)
Let’s get started!
After you’ve signed up, I’ll get some information from your human design & astrology* charts, which help us clarify your identity. it will help you gain confidence, and understand why you are the way you are so we can work with your nature.
Identify your best self
We focus on who your best self is, and the steps you need to take to become her. We look at questions like:
– what is important to me
– what makes me happy
– how do I want to feel
– what do I need to feel good every day
Once we’ve nailed your best self and you’re on your way to become her, we can focus on other challenging areas such as career, mental health, managing energy & expectations and anything else you want to talk about or improve on.
With your new self awareness, confidence, knowledge and tools, you can go out into the world living from your truth with a strong sense of self and the mental freedom to actually be her.
* I use the systems of Human Design and astrology to get a better idea of who you are and what your nature is. Both these systems are described as ‘blueprints for your soul’ and can help you understand yourself so much better. Be aware that I am not a trained reader, and will only use aspects of your charts.
Depending on your package, you get either 1 hour, 4 hours or 12 hours time with me. During this time we will pinpoint your main challenge, and work on tackling that challenge.
You’ll learn tools and tricks to deal with daily life, so you can keep going when we finish our meetings.
If you’re ready to go, all in and excited to change your life, fill out the sign up form right here. The form is not an application you have to pass, it’s just extra information for me to help you in the best way possible. After that, I’ll contact you to schedule our first call and we can get started!
If you’re unsure about the packages, coaching in general or coaching with me, please don’t hesitate to DM me on instagram, send me an e-mail or plan your free connection call, no strings attached. We’ll just have a chat about your dreams, and see if you want me to help you achieve them!
THESE PRICES ARE WITHOUT TAXES. WE DO NOT CHARGE TAX TO CLIENTS OUTSIDE THE EU. WITHIN THE EU WE’RE REQUIRED TO TAX 21%.
Reviews & testimonials
I liked Tessa’s attitude and calm manner of talking. She challenged me to look at different solutions and taught me to think through, analyze and categorize my thoughts.
Since starting, I have started noticing the good, small but important things around me and stopped letting the bad thoughts take over.
I feel like I have more control over myself
Tessa helped me by not solving my problems but giving me guidance to find my own answers while also making me feel empowered.
Who am I?
I knew I had to change my life after taking a holiday to Zanzibar when I was in my last year of university. So 3 months after I graduated, I packed my bags, worked in a hotel for 4 months, and like anyone else trying to ‘find themselves’, spent another 2 travelling around Asia.
When I came back, I tried to find my place in a traditional job. I worked at big corporate offices, and within 6 months I was really bordering on a depression and a bore out.
I felt so alone, as if everyone around me was succeeding at life, and I was trying to stay afloat in the middle of the ocean. I never wanted anyone else to feel this way again.
I focused on learning as much about myself as I could, because I knew I had a greater purpose. That there was more in life for me in this life. From my own experiences and those of my friends, I realized we all run into problems in our twenties. Adulthood gets too much, too overwhelming, and it feels like after college we’re dropped into the deep end without ever learning how to swim.
So after countless conversations with my friends, I realized something needed to change. I created my website, and started my coaching business to help young women like you and me thrive in a world that’s run by those who don’t understand us.
Is this for me?
This is for you if you feel lost, confused and frustrated in life. If you’re trying to figure out life after college (whether that’s one week or 2 years ago), and you find it overwhelming, difficult and not what you expected.
It’s for you if you feel like you have lost sight of who you are, or if you’re just not sure who you are. It’s for you if you don’t know what you want in life, or maybe you do but you have no idea how to get there.
It’s for you if you know you can be more. You know that you’re not living your full potential and you want to find out what that would look like and how you can do it too.
It’s for you if you worry too much about other people’s opinions. If you let yourself be limited by other people’s ideas of you. If you try to fit into society, but somehow you feel like you always stand out.
It’s for you if you think ‘hey, I feel understood. I feel like this is something I should do’. If part of you feels recognized, pulled towards this coaching, I would love to help you.
If you’re still not sure, I’d be so happy to chat with you and see whether it’s a good choice for you. Plan your discovery call here!
How do I sign up?
There are 2 options to sign up. If you are ready to get started, head over to the application form. This form helps me prepare for our meeting, and needs some basic information from you.
If you have some doubts, questions, or you’re just not sure, don’t hesitate to plan a connection call. This is absolutely free, no strings attached, and we can have a chat. I will answer any questions you may have, and you can see whether you’re ready for this next step towards your limitless life.
When can we start?
As soon as you have filled out the form! I know what your struggle feels like, and I know you want to change it as soon as possile. So why wait?
I am so excited to meet you and start working with you. When I have received your form, I will send you a link so you can schedule the call whenever it works for you.